One of the things that I have learned about being a stay-at-home parent is that it can be very trying at times. Sure, I love spending time with the kids on a daily basis, and it is wonderful that my line of work allows me that freedom. But along with that privilege comes with its’ own set of problems. As much as it is wonderful to spend most of their waking lives with them, it isn’t healthy – sometimes a break can help.
Now what kind of break you might ask? Well, it can be as simple as going out for breakfast by myself, or as elaborate as taking a trip without the kids. This gives me the chance to “recharge my batteries”, let the stress of dealing with the kids evaporate and equip me for the upcoming weeks. Depending on the time of the year, the length of the break varies, but I know that it makes a big difference for me.
In fact, let me provide you with a quick example. At this moment, I am sipping coffee and there isn’t a kid around. My tummy is full with the breakfast that I just consumed that I didn’t even have to prepare on my own. I know that I will have to return home shortly, but for the moment I am content. With Daughtry playing in the background here, I am thinking of his concert that I attended just a couple of years ago and I am smiling. This short moment of peace will get me through the day of the fighting, questions, and “disaster management” that my role as a parent gives me.
Thank goodness for breaks.
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